Trip to New England

Morgan went to New England for a week with her mum. Hope you enjoy the recap via pictures.

Lunch with Greta
Morgan, Gramps, Aunt Greta (Gramps' brother's wife), Mummy at Greta's home

Greta's Garden

Greta's Garden

Greta's Garden
Trip to Hanover, MA cemetery 

Zwicker headstone-Gramps' parents Ernest & Olive and Uncle David, Gramps' brother. 

Mummy weeding and planting flowers at Zwicker headstone.

Gramps

Walks around Bridgewater State University

Mummy at BSU

Flowers at BSU
 Trip to Boston, MA

Swan Boat at Public Park in Boston

Swan Boat at Public Park in Boston-moved via bicycle power


Morgan's first ever ride on the Swan Boat!
Swan-mom or dad on nest (both mom & dad sit on the nest)



Mom or Dad Swan

One of the many gates to the Boston Common.

South End of Public Garden with statue of George Washington and view of downtown Boston.

Flowers in Public Garden-remind anyone of Dr. Seuss?!

Morgan with Ms. Mallard & ducklings statues.

Ms. Mallard & Ducklings

One of the ducklings, I think Ouack.

View from restaurant in North End-delicious food!

View of the Old North Church with statue of Paul Revere.

Memorial outside of the Old North Church for the soldiers in Afghanistan & Iraq.

3rd lantern in the Old North Church light by President Ford for world peace.

Harvard Yard

Mr. Harvard-who the college is named after.

Gramps & Mummy on porch in Bridgewater

Trip to Exeter, NH

Exeter Bookstore-found some cute baby socks!

Exeter's Campus


Trip to Newburyport, MA 
-where Uncle Jim & Aunt Katerina live
-BBQ for Gramps, delicious baby back ribs & turkey burgers
-walking around town and visiting local shops
-yummy Fish & Chips at The Tavern

Newburyport Bookstore

Uncle Jim & Aunt Katerina's home

Phoebe-one of Jim & Katerina's pups

Aunt Katerina & Mummy

Gramps

Morgan enjoying the cool weather & sunshine

 Shower for Baby in Bridgewater, MA

Handmade blanket from Aunt Paula, with help from Sybil


Aunt Katerina

Morgan

Patti-mummy's lifelong friend
Cousin Hannah & Morgan with tasty treats

Mummy & Patti

Aunt Katerina & Cousin Hannah


Growing Jones Family

We wanted to officially share the good news about our growing family. We are pregnant! Baby Jones is due August 31. Things are going well. We had our last appointment with the maternal fetal specialist in late April where he officially declared us "boring" and no longer high risk. Baby Jones is healthy and growing well!

It is hard to believe that it's the beginning of February. It feels at times that time is flying by and then at other times it seems like it is barely moving.

As of January 2, I have been back at school. There were lots of emotions and questions about my return. Overall, I am enjoying being back at school with my students, families, and staff. There are even times when it feels therapeutic for me to be doing what I am doing. However, I am careful to check in with myself and Doug daily.

We are taking it one day at a time. Taking time for ourselves and each other. Looking for moments that make us smile. Holding each other when we need comfort.

Things that make me smile...

-Moxie & Bela:



-Over $7,000 has been raised to support multiple organizations in celebration of Martin's life!

-We planted lots of beautiful, blue pansies right after Martin died. It makes me smile to see them thriving and continuing to bloom.



-Autumn gave us a white peace lily before she and Myles moved to Japan. We named it Ted. We heard somewhere that if you name your plants you might take better care of them. Well, Ted the lily is doing pretty well. :-)



-Before Christmas, Doug and I went to Maggie Valley with Rachel and Scott. While we were there, we found a small, beautiful piece of wall art. It says, "There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone, the light remains."

-words from my students:

"Ms. Jones, I heard about your baby. I don't think it is ok for babies to hurt. I am sorry."

"Ms. Jones, what was your baby's name and will you share pictures with us?"

"Ms. Jones, are you and Mr. Jones going to have more babies? You should because I think you would be a great mom."

"Did you know that you can adopt kids, Ms. Jones!"

"Ms. Jones! Your back!" (big hug) "How is your baby?" (share about Martin's death) "I am sorry, but, I am really happy you are back. I really missed you."

Double Digits

The day before we spent the weekend at Egleston, Martin weighed 10 pounds at our cardiologist's office! Five days later he measured 10 pounds & 3 ounces and then this week he weighed in at 10 pounds, 10 ounces. We are thrilled! Martin is eating well, gaining weight, and growing. The bigger he is for the second surgery, the better.

Shadowing the great weight news this week, we got some not so good blood pressure readings. At each visit, the nurse measures Martin's blood pressure on his arm and leg. The pressure readings should be within 10. This week his arm was measuring in the 80s while his leg was measuring in the 50s. Such a difference means that something is not working as it should.

After looking at Martin's echo, the cardiologist said that there was some minor narrowing of Martin's neo-aorta, the aorta that the surgeon constructed during the first open heart surgery. The narrowing is probably a result of the tissue healing and creating some scar tissue. Luckily, the course of action is to schedule a cath lab and insert a small balloon at the site of the narrowing and slowly inflate it. They will most likely do this at Martin's cath lab this coming Wednesday.

And now for a picture update. :-) We have been amazed at how much Martin seems to enjoy looking at and listening to books being read aloud. Bath time is definitely fun too, as long as it is warm. Smiles are coming more and more frequently. And we have even gotten a few laughs!




We apologize for the delay in posts. There are several drafts going, but since it has been soooo long we've decided to publish some of what we have for our readers. :-) More pictures & updates are on the way.

Post started Saturday, Oct. 15:
"Martin gave us our first real scare this past Friday.   Morgan was feeding him at Full Bloom, a great local maternity place where we took birthing classes, with the help of the lactation consultant/R.N., Lucia, who was showing her how to get better flow for Martin.   Everything was going great until they stopped to switch sides and Martin got really upset.   He wouldn't be consoled and began to turn paler and paler until his lips turned blue.   At that point Morgan quickly pulled out the stethoscope and started checking his pulse for tachycardia (dangerously fast heartbeat), since he'd had an episode of that twice before in the hospital, but Lucia measured his heart rate at 180 bpm, just under the tachycardic range; more in the really pissed off baby range.   He was still pale, blue and crying though so they quickly called 911 and tried to calm him while waiting for the ambulance.


Morgan called me immediately after 911, gave me the quick version and told me to meet them at the hospital.  I immediately dropped everything and booked it to the ER.   On the way I talked to Morgan again who was riding in the ambulance at this point and learned that his vital signs all looked more-or-less normal but he was still very pale and upset.   We ended up sitting in an emergency room for 3 or 4 hours waiting on an ambulance from Egleston to fight its way through traffic.   Mostly everyone left us to ourselves and tried not to upset the baby since he seemed to be somewhat better after Morgan remembered he'd gotten only half way through his meal.   Eventually, the ambulance arrived and took Martin & Morgan to Egleston while I went home to get things from home in preparation for our stay.


The good news is that they've decided Martin's problems weren't just spontaneous, unpredictable heart trauma, they were probably caused by ingesting milk a little quicker than he was used to and getting very upset about it; possibly regurgitating it; maybe aspirating on it."

We ended up staying at Egleston for observation until Monday evening. The entire time we were there, Martin was his normal, happy, healthy self. However, while we were in the hospital the team of doctors decided to start Martin on a new medicine that will help lower pressures in his heart and peripheral vascular system. As we understand it, the new medicine dilates the blood vessels throughout the body which reduces the pressure required for the heart to pump blood through them. One of the risks of the new medicine is a sudden decrease in blood pressure so it is recommended to be started while in the hospital. So since we were already there for observation, what better time to begin?! :-)

On the bright side, we got to see several of Martin's nurses from our first hospital stay. They were super excited to see him and incredibly happy to see how much he had grown. They all kept saying that he looked great! Their words were VERY encouraging for Doug and I. One night, the nurses encouraged Doug and I to go out to eat. So after a feed, with Martin sleeping soundly in his crib, we had dinner out together at a delicious pizza place, Everybody's Pizza. We brought back several pizzas for the nurses and found Martin just as we had left him, sleeping peacefully in his crib.

Also, we met with the Egleston lactation consultant who encouraged us to continue nursing Martin, just as Lucia had, and measured the calories in my breast milk. Breast milk averages about 20 calories per ounce. However, that varies greatly from woman to woman as well as the time of day and whether it is measured from the beginning or end of a feed. Anyway, the lactation consultant measured my milk twice and got 24.5 & 25.5 calories per ounce. :-) Even though those are just two readings, it felt good to think that my body is providing Martin with all the calories he needs.

Before we left Egleston, we were able to ask questions and get more information about Martin's upcoming cath lab in preparation for his next surgery. During a catherization, the cardiologist navigates a mini video camera inside the heart via an artery to take pictures and measure pressures. His cath lab is scheduled for this coming Wednesday. Typically, the cath lab is an outpatient procedure. However, the care team suggested we pack an overnight bag just in case Martin needs to be monitored after the procedure.  Sometimes, infants take a little bit longer to recover from anesthesia and they like to monitor overnight to make sure everything is alright. After the cath lab, the doctors will schedule Martin's second surgery, probably to take place at the end of November. Our cardiologist told us that Martin should be home in time to pull on the tree. :-)

This experience has definitely made us even more thankful to have such an amazing health care facility, Egleston, so close to our home. The care team at Egleston is wonderful! They understand Martin's heart condition and aren't remotely wary of caring for him.  The team at Egleston is really great at encouraging and calming us.

After a long weekend, we were discharged Monday evening. The next day we had an appointment with our cardiologist in Athens. Even with the hospitalization, Martin gained 3 ounces in 5 days. Talk about strength and resiliency!

 Doug & Martin at Egleston on Sunday afternoon watching football and tracking our fantasy team in Martin's Cardiac Step Down room.